Grass
Can of Worms sticker The saying goes "The grass is always greener on the other side." Another saying goes, "The grass is green where you water it." But how do I water my grass so that it continues to grow? I think this was a big question for me to consider because it was always like, "Well I know how to clean" but I didn't know that you can't leave it at that. You can't just know how to do it, you have to make it a part of your every day and do it again. And again. And again! Everyone has something to say about that and it can be overwhelming and depressing. Do this. Do that. As an auDHD perimenopausal mother in my 40s, I am only now learning how to get my shit together. No one wants to see you when you're down in it. We want to imagine that there is a good life waiting for us if we could just do XYZ. The truth is we need to allow ourselves the grace of recovering from burnout and/or PTSD which could take YEARS to recover from. On ...